Not Every Walk Needs to Meet Every Need

Bondi Behaviourist • March 24, 2026

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Not Every Walk Needs to Meet Every Need


I see this a lot: People feel like every walk has to be perfect.


They think: “I need to meet all of my dog’s needs… every single time.”


  • More freedom.
  • More sniffing.
  • More training.
  • More engagement.
  • More everything.


And it puts a lot of pressure on them.


The Problem With Trying To Do It All


On paper, it sounds right. Of course we want to meet our dog’s needs. But trying to do it all in a 30–60 minute walk? That’s where it starts to fall apart.


Because real life doesn’t work like that. Some days are busy. Some routes are limited. Some environments aren’t ideal. And sometimes the walk is simply about getting from A to B.


  • Not Every Walk Is For Your Dog
  • Some walks are for your dog.
  • Some walks are for you.
  • Some walks are for both of you.


And that’s okay.


There will be days where your dog walks next to you through busy streets they don’t get to go off lead, they don’t get to stop and sniff everything and they have to move at your pace.


It’s not their favourite. But it serves a purpose.


  • For your life.
  • For your routine.
  • For your family.


Zoom Out.


This is where most people get stuck. They zoom in too close. They look at one walk and think: “That wasn’t good enough.”


But the real question is:


What does the week look like?

What does the month look like?


Because balance doesn’t happen in one walk. It happens over time.


Balance Happens Across Time. Some days your dog might not get much freedom while other days they might get loads. Some walks are structured and other walks are relaxed and sniffy. Some days are about you and other days are about them.


When you zoom out, it balances. Well that should be the goal.


Trying To Please Everyone Creates Frustration


When you try to meet every need, every walk, every time…


You will fail.


Not because you’re doing anything wrong.


But because it’s unrealistic.


And when it doesn’t go perfectly, you get frustrated, your dog gets frustrated and the walk feels stressful and now something that should be simple becomes heavy.


You’re Allowed To Have “Non-Optimal” Days There will be pockets of time where things aren’t perfect.


  • Busy weeks.
  • Limited time.
  • Less freedom.


That’s life.


What matters is what happens around those moments. Because if your dog then gets:


  • Proper freedom
  • Proper enrichment
  • Proper downtime


They will be fine.


The Goal Is Balance, Not Perfection.


You don’t need to please everyone all the time. Not your dog, not yourself, not every situation.


You just need to create balance over time.


The Takeaway


Not every walk needs to meet every need


Zoom out and look at the bigger picture.


Because when you stop trying to do everything in every moment… Everything becomes easier.


For you. And for your dog.

If you’d like help applying this and in doing so, improving your and your your dogs lives, I can support you in a few different ways.

Through Canine Caregivers, I offer online courses and webinars to build understanding, structure, and consistency at your pace.

If you’re based in Sydney, I also offer 1:1 training across Sydney, socialisation classes, and can provide all recommended training equipment to support the work we’re doing.

I offer The Complete Care training program that covers every single base you will need as well as The Starter Program which allows you to tailor the training and support you need with flexibility.

— Ian

 Bondi Behaviourist


“A healthy dog is a happy dog and a happy dog is great to live with”.

Ian Shivers

Pet Parent, Dog Trainer & Behaviourist, podcast and content writer

I’m not here to help you create an obedient dog. I’m here to help you create a better life with your dog built on understanding, trust, and meeting both of your needs.


Whether you’re starting fresh with a new puppy or looking to improve life with your current dog, I’m here to guide you with practical, simple, and effective support.


Hi, my name is Ian, and I’ve been working with dogs and their owners since 2007, helping families build calmer, more connected relationships that last. With 150+ five-star Google reviews, I’m proud to be one of Sydney’s highest-rated behaviourists you can trust.

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