When Part of Your Walk Is Unavoidable — But Your Dog Hates It

Ian Shivers • February 17, 2026

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I understand why obedience is so attractive.

A LOT of dog owners have one part of their walk that they dread.


The narrow footpath.

The busy corner.

The barking dog behind the fence.

The park entrance where everyone gathers.


You can’t always avoid it. But here’s something important to remember:


We take our dogs out for enjoyment.


For their enjoyment.

For our enjoyment.

For connection, movement, fresh air, time together.


If the walk regularly causes stress, fear, anxiety, or frustration — it defeats the very purpose of the walk.

“We Have To Go That Way”

Sometimes the route feels unavoidable.


It’s the only way to the park.
It’s the street you live on.
It’s part of your daily routine.


But even if you can’t remove it completely, you can reduce how much stress it causes. And that matters.



Because stress adds up.


Stress Accumulates

If every day your dog hits the same stressful section and every day their nervous system spikes…


That doesn’t disappear when you get home.

 - Stress builds.


 - Tolerance drops.


 - Reactions get bigger.


 - Recovery gets slower.


You might start noticing:


  • reactivity in places that were once fine


  • shorter fuses


  • more scanning and vigilance


  • more pulling


  • more frustration at home


The route didn’t change. Your dog’s tolerance did.


Management Is Not Giving Up

Sometimes people think managing a situation means failure. It doesn’t.


It means being thoughtful. If there’s a stressful section that can’t be removed, the question becomes:

How do we reduce the emotional cost?


That might mean:


  • crossing the road early


  • walking at quieter times


  • shortening the walk


  • turning before a reaction builds


  • creating more distance


  • moving calmly and predictably through it




Even reducing a daily stress from an 8/10 to a 4/10 makes a huge difference long term.

But Here’s the Bigger Question…

If the walk itself is consistently stressful… Why are we doing it that way?


We don’t take our dogs out to “toughen them up.”

We don’t walk them to prove something.
We walk them because it’s meant to be enjoyable and enriching.


If the standard route causes daily tension, it’s okay to rethink it.

Alternative Ways to Spend Time Together

If your usual walk isn’t serving you right now, consider alternatives.

1. Breed-Specific Enrichment & Games

Every dog was designed to do something.


  • Herding breeds need problem-solving and movement.


  • Terriers love digging and chasing.



  • Hounds love sniffing and tracking.


  • Retrievers love carrying and retrieving.


Instead of forcing a stressful street walk, you could:


  • Play structured retrieve sessions


  • Set up scent games in the yard


  • Create digging boxes


  • Do food scatter hunts


  • Practice impulse control games


  • Teach new skills indoors

    These activities often provide more mental and physical satisfaction than a tense walk ever could.

2. Drive to a Better Location

If the route from your house is the problem, skip it.


 - Drive somewhere quieter.


 - Drive somewhere wider.



 - Drive somewhere calmer.


Remove the daily trigger entirely. The goal isn’t convenience. It’s emotional stability.

3. Hire a Private, Safe Space

Private paddocks and enclosed hire spaces are becoming more common.


These give dogs freedom of movement without social pressure.


 - No unpredictable dogs.


- No narrow footpaths.


- No unavoidable triggers.



Just space.


And for some dogs, that is exactly what they need while confidence is rebuilt.


You Matter Too

If you tense up before reaching that stressful section, your dog can feel it. If you dread the walk, they notice by the way you tighten the leash, hold your breath and even get the treats ready.



Your nervous system and theirs are connected. Managing stress protects both of you.


The Takeaway

Some parts of life can’t be avoided.


But many can be adjusted.


We walk our dogs for enjoyment and enrichment. If the walk regularly creates stress instead of joy, pause and reassess.


 - Reduce the impact.


- Change the environment.


- Try alternatives.



Because daily stress chips away at wellbeing. And daily stability builds resilience.


If you’d like help applying this and in doing so, improving your and your your dogs lives, I can support you in a few different ways.

Through Canine Caregivers, I offer online courses and webinars to build understanding, structure, and consistency at your pace.

If you’re based in Sydney, I also offer 1:1 training across Sydney, socialisation and puppy classes, and can provide all recommended training equipment to support the work we’re doing.

I offer The Complete Care training program that covers every single base you will need as well as The Starter Program which allows you to tailor the training and support you need with flexibility.

— Ian

 Bondi Behaviourist


“A healthy dog is a happy dog and a happy dog is great to live with”.

I understand why obedience is so attractive.

— Ian

 Bondi Behaviourist


“A healthy dog is a happy dog and a happy dog is great to live with”.

Ian Shivers

Pet Parent, Dog Trainer & Behaviourist, podcast and content writer

I’m not here to help you create an obedient dog. I’m here to help you create a better life with your dog built on understanding, trust, and meeting both of your needs.


Whether you’re starting fresh with a new puppy or looking to improve life with your current dog, I’m here to guide you with practical, simple, and effective support.


Hi, my name is Ian, and I’ve been working with dogs and their owners since 2007, helping families build calmer, more connected relationships that last. With 150+ five-star Google reviews, I’m proud to be one of Sydney’s highest-rated behaviourists you can trust.

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