Motivation Is Easy. Commitment Is What Changes Things.

Ian Shivers • January 14, 2026

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I understand why obedience is so attractive.

At the start of a new year, motivation is everywhere.


We feel hopeful.


We feel ready.


We feel excited about change.


We make plans.


We set goals.


We imagine things being better.



And that motivation feels good. But motivation doesn’t last.


Motivation Comes and Goes

Motivation shows up when things are easy.


It shows up when:


  • the weather is good


  • life feels calm


  • energy is high


  • progress feels quick


But motivation fades when:


  • you’re tired


  • your dog has a bad day


  • behaviour doesn’t change right away


  • things feel messy or slow


And this is where most people get stuck.


Not because they don’t care.
Not because they’re lazy.



But because they were relying on motivation to carry them through.


Commitment Is What Carries You When It’s Hard

Real change doesn’t come from feeling motivated. It comes from:


  • showing up when it’s hard


  • sticking to the plan when progress feels slow


  • doing the right thing even when you’re frustrated


  • staying consistent when results aren’t obvious



That’s commitment. And commitment is quieter than motivation — but far more powerful.


Dog Training Is No Different

Every January, people set dog training goals. They want:


  • calmer walks


  • less reactivity


  • better listening


  • fewer big behaviours


  • more ease at home


At first, motivation is high. But then:


  • the dog reacts again


  • the behaviour doesn’t disappear


  • progress feels uneven


  • doubt creeps in


And this is where people either:


  • change the plan too fast


  • give up



  • or try to push harder instead of staying steady


Training Isn’t About Feeling Good Every Day

Training isn’t about being excited all the time.


It’s about:


  • doing small things well


  • repeating them often


  • staying patient


  • trusting the process


  • adjusting when needed


  • not quitting when it gets uncomfortable


Some days feel great.
Some days feel flat.
Some days feel frustrating.


That doesn’t mean it isn’t working.


It means you’re in the middle of it.


Progress Comes From Grit, Not Hype

Lasting behaviour change comes from:


  • consistency over intensity


  • commitment over motivation


  • patience over pressure


It comes from doing the basics well — even when no one is watching and no quick wins are showing up.


That’s how dogs learn.
That’s how habits change.
That’s how trust is built.


Some days feel great.
Some days feel flat.
Some days feel frustrating.


That doesn’t mean it isn’t working.



It means you’re in the middle of it.


A Better Way to Think About the New Year

Instead of asking: “Am I motivated enough?”


Try asking: “Am I willing to stay with this when it’s hard?”


Because motivation will fade. But commitment can stay.



And when it does, change follows.


The Takeaway

Motivation starts the journey. Commitment carries it forward.


If you want real change with your dog this year, don’t aim to feel motivated every day.


Aim to stay consistent, kind, and steady — especially on the hard days.



That’s where the real work happens.


If you’d like help applying this and in doing so, improving your and your dogs lives, I can support you in a few different ways.

Through Canine Caregivers, I offer online courses and webinars to build understanding, structure, and consistency at your pace.

If you’re based in Sydney, I also offer 1:1 training across Sydney, socialisation and puppy classes, and can provide all recommended training equipment to support the work we’re doing.

I offer The Complete Care training program that covers every single base you will need as well as The Starter Program which allows you to tailor the training and support you need with flexibility.

— Ian

 Bondi Behaviourist


“A healthy dog is a happy dog and a happy dog is great to live with”.

I understand why obedience is so attractive.

Ian Shivers

Pet Parent, Dog Trainer & Behaviourist, podcast and content writer

I’m not here to help you create an obedient dog. I’m here to help you create a better life with your dog built on understanding, trust, and meeting both of your needs.


Whether you’re starting fresh with a new puppy or looking to improve life with your current dog, I’m here to guide you with practical, simple, and effective support.


Hi, my name is Ian, and I’ve been working with dogs and their owners since 2007, helping families build calmer, more connected relationships that last. With 150+ five-star Google reviews, I’m proud to be one of Sydney’s highest-rated behaviourists you can trust.

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